Saturday, August 8, 2009

Smile & be Happy

Do you think twice before you do anything?

Yes

Do you get your plan/ feeling accomplished?

May be you might say yes, but I am sure the answer is going to be NO. It won’t be as what you had initially decided.

A person who does things in impulses is far happier and achieves their feelings. Don’t you think so?

If you feel like having a Masala Dosa/ Pizza or what ever be it, just have it don’t keep it for later. You will feel happy, and of course scientific study have shown happy people live longer. Hey throw the studies in the drain; I don’t think we need studies to tell that all of us want happiness. These might be trifle things but just try it you will definitely feel the difference.

Of course there are financial factors, every dream or wish can come true if we remain in our limits. Even its similar in case of human emotions, be it love, anger, pain, what ever be it express it. If you are in love Say it, that to the person you love….don’t think about the consequences there is time for it later. But do make sure that you do not hurt anyone in getting to your goal.

In a bollywood movie, I guess its ‘Life in a Metro’, there is scène when one of the actresses is taken to a top of a building and she is asked to shout to out to let her anger sublime. Yes she is shown to have relieved of her frustration.

In another movie’ Jab we met’, there is a character who likes to live on the impulses she feels and she is bloody happy. Even there is scène where she is sitting on top of wooden plank protruding to the lake and she feel likes jumping in and she does it along with the lead actor. Its bloody stupid when we think but when we see the faces of both of them, you will know, though it was pretty stupid it was fun.

Yup, I am a movie buff, so bear with me for taking you in to the world of colors and dreams

Let’s try to have fun people. FUN its three letter word but a word so powerful, that it changes the life of all.

Oh one more thing hurting people is not fun, its sadisms. Have fun but your fun should not hurt others.


Enjoy the simple things in life…...that’s the way to live a happy and fun filled life.

Enjoy the goodness of a simple Smile, as I always have said smile is the reflector of happiness.

An heart felt smile is the best gift you can give to anyone

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Reaching Out

Without a Vision, we become a debating society and a place where habit quickly becomes “tradition”. Tradition often becomes an excuse for repression, bigotry or reactionary thinking – Raymond R Feist, Shards of a Broken Crown

Those are the lines from the latest book that I have finished reading. Felt like sharing among all of you. Though I have no idea what to write, here I am sitting like a school boy in an English exam when he has to write an essay on the above topic.

Traditions should be for the betterment of mankind, and some times we need to create new traditions, you might not know but you may like it. Why not start a new tradition of accepting us gays as a part of the society. Accept the change, we biologists term it as evolution, but in this case evolution is required for each and everyone’s mind set. We are your brothers and sisters. By accepting us, YOU, make a difference.

Am sure, all of us like taking their own decisions, following your own dream, even we want the same. We really don’t want to say like what Dash (a character in the novel) said “I am tired of living their vision of what I should be, who I should be”. YOU can make the difference happen by supporting us.